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Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

The Quickest Way to Get is to Give

It’s true. You can’t really get what you want in life until you have given it to others. Doesn’t sound like it make much sense, does it? How can you give what you don’t have? As you open your mind to the possibility and ask this question of yourself, you allow opportunity to come to you and knock at your door. Then you will find a way that it is possible to give to others what you want, before receiving it yourself.

It almost sounds like a chain letter and in a way it is. The chain letter is a facetious reference as so many of us have been exposed to them by now and know they are illegitimate scams. Yet the basic principles are: you give before you receive, and you give with the faith and expectation of receiving. A similar modern example can be seen in the film ‘Pay It Forward’. By giving to others, you allow good things to happen to you. And this all boils down to the simple law of attraction.

The law of attraction is like any other law of nature, like gravity. And like gravity, it is not one that has been generally ‘discovered’ yet. As a result, most of us are walking around thinking in a completely disordered paradigm.

Disordered paradigms of thought are displayed over and over in history, and discoveries of natural laws and observations of reality have brought order to transform the mistaken beliefs that had been accepted for fact. You can think of many examples, such as the belief that the world is flat, or the belief that we are at the center of the universe. Or the great changes that resulted as a discovery of the force of electricity and harnessing its natural power.

In this same way, we are able to make a change in our own disordered thought patterns. Right now 99% of us are probably dissatisfied. Dissatisfaction means larger life is seeking to be expressed through us, and it is being blocked. Self-sabotage is a very real process working in the invisible realms of the unconscious mind.

The good news is there are a lot of simple, small but powerful techniques you can use to reprogram that all powerful unconscious mind of yours, to order your own life as you want it. Yes, there IS a way to eliminate the chaos in your life, and it starts within. It starts by eliminating the often unseen chaos in your own mind.

The technique in this article is only one of a vast array that you can use on a daily basis to improve your life dramatically. In this article you are learning how to use the law of attraction to attract to yourself what you want.

The law of attraction, like gravity, is undefiable. You will attract what you are sending out. Your thoughts are real in the world of A Powerful Life.

If your mind is resonating with patterns of anxiety, stress, anger, sadness, envy, grief, or any other negative emotion, you will be attracting more of the same in your life.

One step you can take to change this is to focus on giving to others before you receive yourself. In this way you are changing your vibration and your focus. And you open yourself to receive what you had been closing off before.

It is very simple to give. Give of what you have, and everyone has something to give. We all have innate value to offer the world. An abiding philosophy in the law of attraction is to always offer an increase in value, to give back more in value than you receive in money. In this way you continue to give more than you get and attract more and larger life back to yourself for An Abundant Life.

Take a moment to look within and find something, anything, no matter how small or simple, to give to anyone, friend or stranger. Start the practice of giving, and you will take one step towards raising your level of vibration and enhancing the value of what you attract in your own life. Give something selflessly today, knowing that you will receive it multiplied back in your life, tenfold.

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Network Marketing What Robert Kiyosaki Thinks

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

In this interview with famed author of Rich Dad Poor Dad tells what he thinks about network marketing kiyosaki says many things that suport the idea that if he had it to do all over again he’d join a good network marketing company. Is network marketing the best system for the average person?
Robert Kiyosaki says “yes” and explains that, “in the corporate world if you don’t sell, you’re fired. In network marketing they’ll work with you to achieve.

What a deal that is! That’s revolutionary.” And much more…

Here’s a conversation with Robert Kiyosaki, author Rich Dad Poor Dad

Robert this quote has been attributed to you:

“If I had it to do all over again, rather than build an old style type of business I would have started building a network marketing business.” Did you really say that?

I said something like that, yeah!

Is it true?

Yes, when I looked at the problems I had to go through, but it’s how I started. I still like building companies, but it was harder.

When you and I first spoke, many years ago, you were not all that ‘high’ on network marketing. What caused you to change your mind?

Let me backtrack and explain things to you. When I started as an entrepreneur I had to learn how to sell. That’s how I started and I started with Xerox in 1974.

What I say to people today, when asked, “How would you start a business?” I always tell them to go start with a network marketing company. Not because of the network marketing company per se, but for the training you get from the network marketing company. The reason I say that is because what makes people rich is not money. What makes people rich is skills. And the number one skill of an entrepreneur is the ability to sell.

That’s why I recommend network marketing. It’s not that I’ve ever been high or low or anything on it. When I first started out I just didn’t realize how good the training was with that business model, because my training came from the corporate world of Xerox. Not too many guys are going to get hired by Xerox today and they don’t do as extensive a training anymore because people quit too early.

So my whole point on recommending network marketing is that you go there and you gain priceless business skills. That explains further what I’m saying about if I had to do it all over again? I would probably go and get training through a network marketing company.

Robert, can you break down what some of those skills are and why they are important?

SELL! Sell, sell, sell, sell, four-letter word, you’ve got to sell. And that’s the word everybody’s afraid of! But, Sales = Income.

So when someone has low income, 99% of the time it’s because they can’t sell something; they have nothing to sell or they can’t sell. You’ve got to learn how to sell.

If I’m going to be an entrepreneur then that is THE number one skill. That’s the theme to everything I tell you. You read Rich Dad, Poor Dad, it says, “I’m not a best writing author, I’m a best selling author”. I think this is an important point about where most people make a mistake. They go into things looking at how much money they can make versus what skills they need to make the money. That’s when I get really tired of talking to people.

I keep saying, “Just get the skills and the money will show up!”

Robert, can you talk to me about the components that go into ’sell, sell, sell’?

I’m just saying it’s training. You have to know you’re going to make mistakes. Look at the way the corporate world trains you. When I was working at Xerox, every month they would post my record and of those in the bottom twenty, one of us got fired. They fired two guys and they hired two new guys. So, the only reason I learned how to sell was because I was afraid of getting fired. At least in the network marketing world they’ll train you. It’s a whole different way of being taught. In the network marketing world if you’re not making it, someone will be there to encourage you. It’s a lot more humane way of being taught a vital, vital, vital life skill called sales.

Just look at the subject of sales? Jesus Christ was probably the best salesman in the whole world, and of course Buddha and Mohammed, they were all great at sales. Look at the presidential candidates, the one that wins is the one that does the best job of selling his point of view. It seems to be the human condition, especially in the academic world, that there are two subjects that nobody wants to talk about, one is money and one is sales. They seem to think of ‘cash’ as a four-letter word and ’sale’ as a four-letter word yet, I’m a teacher and I make more money than most teachers in the academic world simply because I can sell better than they can.

When I recommend network marketing to people, it is for one simple reason, you gain a life skill. It’s called ‘overcoming your fear of rejection’, ‘overcoming the clients fear of being sold’, and breaking through that. Robert, what makes you say that network marketing is a revolutionary way to achieve wealth? Because they don’t fire you! They’ll work with you! They’ll help you build a business and once you have a business you really do have an asset. Assets are something that put money in your pocket whether you work or not. If you have a job… well, look at some of the big financial houses, they’re firing people right now. One of them is firing something like 15,000 people in the U.S. and hiring 15,000 people in India. The day of the safe, secure job is gone. At least with a network marketing business you work really hard to build something that you can pass on to your kids and, if you’ve done a good job, if you stop working it will continue to support you. You’re not working for the rich, you’re not working just for money, you are actually working to build an asset.

Is that what you speak about in your business school book, The Hidden Values, you speak about the value of a network? Yes, well, the richest people in the world build networks. That’s why they’re called ‘Television Networks’ or gasoline service station networks. The poor and middle class and educated to work for networks, I’d rather own the network. For example, I have a network of book stores throughout the world that we control. That’s worth a lot of money to me. I don’t want to work for them; I just want to control them. I think in the form of networks and the average person thinks about working for money. I’d rather work to build a network. That’s why I’m rich. And that’s what we get to do in network marketing. Build a network which we can take anywhere with us?

It’s a completely different point of view; it’s a different way of looking at the world.

If somebody said to me, “I’ll pay you $5 million dollars a year to go work at Harvard University” I wouldn’t take it. That’s not enough money. Why would I work for somebody else? That doesn’t compute for me. They could take it away from me and that just doesn’t make sense. I know it computes to most people, like 401K’s and Mutual Funds, which also make no sense to me but, I’ve been trained differently. I can make more building my own business. I pay more than that in taxes each year. So what I’m saying to network marketing company’s is, what makes it hard for some people is that they have to give up their old ideas of what they were told to do? Go to school, get a job, work hard, save money, get out of debt, invest in long term, diversify, buy mutual funds. That’s really stupid from my point of view, but it is good advice for the average person. It’s simply a completely different point of view. I am an entrepreneur. I don’t want to work for someone else. I don’t want somebody telling me how much money I can make, I don’t want somebody to tell me where I can go in the world or when I have to come to work. I’d hate it! Nobody tells me that. That’s why I support network marketing! Is that part of the challenge that network marketers face? that most people are indoctrinated in thinking as you just described? Absolutely! From the time we’re born we are told by other people what to do, including, go to school, get good grades, get a good job, work hard, get a pension etc. That’s not my idea of life. I want my freedom and anybody messes with my freedom, I fight for it. When you talk to most people about going for freedom you’ll find they would rather go for security. That’s the challenge that network marketers have, they are talking to people who are, fundamentally, cowards. Cowards let their fear run them. And that’s what people run up against when they want to talk about network marketing. People claim they want to be free but they are not willing to give up their job security, they’re not willing to take any risks, they want a guaranteed paycheck but they also want their freedom? Talk to me a little bit about the role of leadership in network marketing. And how is it different from leadership in other forms of business?

Well, leadership in network marketing is that you are offering no guarantees. Tell the truth! All you’re offering this person is the possibility, the possibility that this other person can be a leader themselves. If you’re more concerned with your own self-preservation, what people think of you, and steady paychecks, then you don’t have core leadership skills.

To be a leader you have to be one willing and able to take the heat, to stand there and take the fire and say, “Look, you can do it!” Leadership in corporate America is called management. They aren’t true leaders; they’re just dangling a paycheck in order to get people to do what management wants them to do. You’ve witnessed a number of leaders in network marketing. What do you see them doing right? They inspire people to be leaders. A leader doesn’t lead, a leader creates leaders. That’s why network marketing is so powerful? Because if you can get somebody who is confident and more interested in freedom than security to actually come and lead people, their lives will change.

That’s not always easy to do because of the mindset of the majority. That’s the hardest part.

So many people are so afraid to say, “I want to do network marketing” not because it’s not a good idea, it’s because of what their friends and co-workers might think of them!

That’s not me! I stand up and say what I say because I feel it’s the truth. No one should apologize for wanting to do network marketing! That’s not freedom! Reminds me of the movie, Braveheart, where Mel Gibson says, “They can take our lives but they can’t take our freedom!” Most people will sell their freedom so they can have their little lives.

Now understand, I know somebody has to be willing to do the jobs, be a waiter or waitress, or a school teacher and I appreciate that, but many people who do it are willing to sell their freedom and what I’m talking to you about is freedom.

The reason you learn how to sell is so you can become free. The reason you want to be in network marketing is for your freedom.

Do you realize most people from the U.S. can’t go to Mexico and do work because you need a green card? But if you’re a business owner, well, I can go to Mexico or China or wherever I want and do business. That’s freedom! But if you’re an employee you need a green card, that’s not freedom. I can make as much money as I like. That’s freedom. But if I have to work for someone else and they’re going to tell me how much I can make, that’s not freedom.

That’s really what it comes down to. When I get that question, do I recommend network marketing, actually, I recommend freedom!

That’s what I stand for. And I don’t care what that means to you, just go do it.

For me, freedom means I don’t have to answer to anybody, I can leave the country if I want to leave it, I can travel around the world and make as much as I want, legally, ethically, morally. I tell you exactly where I’m at; you don’t have to guess where I’m at. That’s freedom; I don’t worry about what somebody else thinks of me. That’s what I stand for, not network marketing. Network marketing is one of the ways you can get there.

This is network marketing kiyosaki style!

Do you think it’s one of the best ways for average people?

I think it’s the best system for the average person, yes. I say again, in the corporate world if you don’t sell within the first year, you’re fired. In network marketing they’ll work with you to achieve success. What a deal that is! They will work with you to become free. Isn’t that wonderful? That’s revolutionary!

It’s clear that when it comes to network marketing kiyosaki says yes!

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How To Enhance Your Memory By Eating Healthier

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Leading a healthy lifestyle will cause so many benefits which include helping you to sharpen your memory. This is a very vital aspect because if you will not take sure steps so as to nurture it, you’ll end up with the disorders that are associated with this function of your brain. Your memory is your brain’s ability to encode info, retain and store them and recall very important knowledge whenever needed.

Steps to Improve Memory

There are various things that you can do to help your brain perform at its best. This can be achieved by avoiding unhealthy vices like drinking too much alcoholic beverages, smoking and turning to prohibited drugs. You must learn the way to manage your vices if you cannot stop immediately. Exercising also helps in giving your brain sensible supply of oxygen. This will enhance its performance and will make you recall things easier. It’s also a must to get enough rest and sensible quantity of sleep. The manner you think that can be gravely affected if you are tired, especially when you simply got some hours of sleep which will leave you feeling weak and you also cannot think straight.

There are exercises that you can do your brain improve. You’ll be able to resort to varied card games that promote such benefit. You should conjointly be active in learning new things constantly even if you’re already. This must not stop you to find out by reading and training. You want to additionally have interaction in different physical activities that will facilitate regulate the blood circulation on your brain. You want to additionally learn how to manage your emotions, particularly the stress that you’re feeling as a results of thinking an excessive amount of regarding your problems. Depression causes a serious impact on one’s memory in addition to emotional instability.

Eating Right

You need to eat right for your brain to function well. It can not help if you’ll be distracted by your hunger for your thoughts to come back out fluently. By eating right, it means that that you have to eat the kinds of foods that are healthy in proportions that will facilitate your stay fit and vigorous. If you’re into some sort of diet, simply be sure that you follow the suggested intake of the food that you are allowed to eat. Here are some foods that may facilitate your achieve the goal of achieving higher memory.

1. Sunflower seeds. Nuts contain healthy fats that you’ll incorporate on your diet. These seeds contain abundant supply of Vitamin E, an antioxidant that help out in improving your memory as you grow older. Other wealthy sources of Vitamin E includes hazelnut, spinach, kiwi, broccoli, wheat germ oil, mango and dry almond.

2. Salmon. This contains Omega-three fatty acids that are vital in developing your brain and serving to it to perform better. Such acids can additionally be found in walnut, soybean, shrimp, scallop, tofu, winter squash, flaxseed and walnut.

3. Blueberries. These are rich in phytochemical parts which will affect one’s memory during a terribly smart way. These are sensible for your overall health.

4. Lean beef. This is often rich in iron that will help you boost and help better your memory if taken in moderate proportions. However make sure that you don’t eat much of this as a result of you may encounter weight problems if you are doing so.

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What If You Are A God?

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

What if God is US! What if individually we are IT? We manifest our reality using the cosmic law of attraction and create our reality with our minds. What if we are Gods? What if we are a physical plane filled with creative God beings? Be blessed and manifest. Troy

You know as a child I would always ask my mother questions about religion and faith. I guess at an early age something about not being worthy or having done something wrong by just being born didn’t really ring true to me. I mean there were always questions like. “If a baby dies. Does he or she go to hell?” That one was answered with the “No a baby is saved by grace.” Which then led to the question “Then what about a two year old?” That was usually answered with the same response. “No they are saved by grace too.” I would follow with “So when does the saved by grace thing end?” “Well when you are aware of right or wrong.” She would say. That just didn’t make any sense to me. At the time I was six and I knew not to press the issue too much further.

Then I turned eleven. And you know that preteen boys and their moms are rivals almost to the death. So religion became our battlefield. Not really because I wanted to fight with my mom ,well partially that, but also because these answers just didn’t seem to ever feel right in my soul. I still remember asking her “What if we are wrong?” The first time I asked her that question I remember her saying “What if we were wrong about what?” I remember it like it was yesterday. I turned to her and said “What if we are wrong about who is going to heaven and who is going to hell? What if the Muslims are correct and we are going to hell? What if the Buddhist are right and we have got it all wrong? What if we are wrong?” “We are not wrong.” She said to me. “How do you know?” I asked her. “I know because of the way that has brought me through.” She said emphatically. The beautiful thing about about being a kid is that you are still close to source. You have not forgotten the powerful ,abundant ,knowledgeable being that you are. Yet I digress. I then turned to her ,with that childlike confidence and wisdom, and said “But my friend Satpaul who is Hindu can say the same thing. His parents there ancestors can all say that they know that their religion is true because of how the Hindu Gods have brought them through. The same with people of the Muslim faith, the Buddhists, and anyone else who has been raised in another faith. So what if they are right?” “Son If they do not worship and accept as their personal savior they are not saved and they will not go to heaven.” she said. “And that is enough talk about that.”

Isn’t that usually what happens when the truth challenges beliefs? As we know beliefs are no more than a chronic pattern of thought. That is why you can change them. The issue is that in many cases beliefs make people feel comfortable not because they are true , but because we think that they could be true in the beginning so we attract things that prove them to be true. Then because we now have attracted “evidence” by using the Universal laws of attraction we believe that this belief is true. Changing beliefs makes us think! Changing beliefs makes us free. All of these things tend to make people feel uncomfortable.

Why because these “beliefs” have become part of their vibration and they have “evidence” that these beliefs are true. So I have to ask. What if we are all Gods. Let me leave you with this. How can someone be a part of something and not be it. How can you have God within you and not be God.

I don’t know about you ,but if my pinky finger was about to be hit by a hammer it would have at it’s disposal all of the power of my entire body. It would be able to summon every ounce of strength that my body had to prevent that from happening. My pinky is me and it is as important and as powerful as any other part of my body. We must be the same! We must be God, and if we are maybe we are all right and maybe by using the cosmic law of attraction we are creating and will create our own “life experience” and “after life” experience.

Be blessed and Manifest,

Troy

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What Is The Purpose Of Life? – Is Philosophy Absurd!

Thursday, October 29th, 2009

Philosophy is defined as the use of intelligence and argument in seeking truth and knowledge of reality, especially of the causes and nature of things and of the ideology governing existence, the material universe, awareness of corporeal phenomena and human behaviour. Also, search of understanding for its own sake, love of wisdom, an integrated view of existence.

In researching important philosophers throughout 2,600 years of history, many patterns can be observed, particularly one of astonishing physical advancement of the natural sciences, but an offsetting regression of the human spirit, or psychological “misfitting” with the world around us.

In the 20th century, the major philosophy has been existentialism, in which the anxious, death and time-haunted person is cajoled to have faith in himself, take on the world, and become an authentic human being, notwithstanding his conviction that the cosmos and human existence is ridiculous.

Are these philosophers confused! Talk about clashing opinions!

Brilliant, reflective minds have contemplated all sorts of weird questions such as, why are we here, what’s it all about and what is reality. Can we know that anything exists beyond the human mind? Here are several additional philosophers’ views on why we are here and what to do about it.

Socrates thought that we all have understanding of absolute truth inside. Plato encouraged us to desist from bodily pleasures. Aristotle believed that we could be fully contented in this life. Epicurus held garden parties and advised us to go after the highest amount of worldly enjoyment, whilst avoiding grief. Zeno promoted a life of intelligence, and to stay away from physical gratification. The sceptics were sceptical about everything, including whether happiness was possible.

St. Augustine went even further, and preached that contentment was unachievable in this world, since we were aware of future death – better to wait for the next one. Galileo affirmed that the cosmos is an open book, except that it is written in almost incomprehensible mathematical code. Descartes doubted his own body, the outside world, and even his own mind, until he finally recognized that something was going on. Hobbes believed that we should be self centred, if only to stay alive. Spinoza was extremely into faith and science and argued that if we cherished both we would lead a satisfactory life.

Hume gave in to the appetites, and said we are slaves of experience. Rousseau hungered to become a primitive again, and his ideas motivated the bloody French Revolution. Kant thought we were progressing nicely towards becoming a sane society. Hegel held up the idealistic knowledge and the State as fine examples of rational, intelligent mind. Shopenhauer blamed the irrational will for our difficulties, and somehow believed we could use reason to conquer this issue, though he was cynical regarding our chances.

Comte proclaimed God was dead long before Nietzsche, and fashioned sociology to save humanity from itself. Mill supported freedom and contentment for the maximum quantity of people, without explaining what happiness meant. Kierkegaard made a jump of faith away from nothingness and into a devout life, to avoid the despair that comes with human existence. Marx jumped on the Hegel bandwagon, and stirred up the working class to answer to their overlords with rebellion, although there would be an temporary phase of dictatorship to be navigated before Utopia arrived.

Nietzsche urged us to become fighters and rage against the cosmos, until we died, then pick ourselves up and rage some more. Husserl observed something unusual about his consciousness – it actually homed in on things in the outside world. Rand had the cheek to say that man is a logical creature!

If the greatest philosophers who have ever lived can’t concur on what truth is, or solve the core question of existence – why are we here? – then what are we being taught in school? Who is educated enough or shrewd enough to instruct everyone else how to live? Reflecting on this, why would anyone follow anyone else, or be in awe of anyone else?

Be bold and challenge yourself to change your life and create your own unique life of marvelous exploration and achievements without following anyone else – particularly not the philosophers!

Gary Hipworth is a life planning consultant who believes that all people are capable of being their own life coach. For this purpose he created Superlife Life Planning Software to help you discover how to change your life

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Common Sense Self Help Suggestions For Alcohol Addiction

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

Alcohol addiction is a grave social concern and many countries have initiated programs to bring awareness among people about drinking and its harmful consequences. Getting out of this crucial habit is effective by self help to stop drinking. Self help to stop drinking might be an efficient way to get relieved from this habit. However, self realization promotes self help to stop drinking. Despite attending educational and awareness programs and combining it with mental and physical workouts, many people face a tough period in quitting this awful habit. Drinking affects the personality of a person in many ways. Conversely, adhering to certain self help programs can truly keep people away from drinking.

Firm determination – Weak mind results in bad habits. People can handle tough situations, but weaker minds get succumbed to drugs or alcohol abuse. Firm determination is the main key to self help to stop drinking to a big extent. However, following the counselor’s directives religiously will certainly put an end to drinking gradually and assist in the self help program. A couple of meetings with counselor strengthen the level of determination.

Meeting a counselor – People keen to stop drinking are mostly unable to comprehend where and how to begin. In cases like this it is appropriate to have a meeting with a counselor. He can help in discussing the addiction problem and ensure relaxation. This step is very important and professionals can provide solutions and guidelines to say adieu to drinking. Anyway, the self help guidelines if followed regularly and meticulously may provide good results in overcoming the addiction of drinking alcohol.

Entertaining the mind – The most effective ways of quitting a habit is by entertaining the mind in some other activity that completely leaves no room and time to get diverted towards drinking. Self help to stop drinking is a determined act, but initially triggers drinking at every act. Hence, entertaining and keeping engaged by involving in sports or any other voluntary services helps in devoting time appropriately. Such engagements do not allow time to encourage habits such as drinking. Moreover, the determination of following the self help tips promotes the sense of responsibility such that alcohol is left behind unknowingly.

Practice meditation and yoga-meditation and yoga therapies are effective remedies for many physical and mental ailments. Taking steps towards self help to stop drinking is an accomplishment and boosting the mind and body to endure stress, exhibits firm determination. Meditation encourages concentration of the mind on valuable matters such as to stop drinking and keeps the brain at ease. On the other hand, yoga assists in removing toxins from the body and the breathing exercises brings control. This treatment is universally accepted method as it has positive effects. Ensure visiting a professional to acquire training to practice meditation and yoga to support your self help program.

Assisting and promoting self-concerns regarding quitting alcohol involves awareness of health hazards due to drinking. Self help to addicition recovery should be assisted with the advice of professionals in promoting self realization by opening the consequences. Keeping away from addicted people is itself an accomplishment towards quitting the addiction. Anything provoking drinking should be kept at a great distance and concentration towards stop drinking will assist in getting rid of this deadly habit.

Comprehending the fact that more than any other measure , it is the self help behavior that will keep a check on the unwanted acts. Trying these suggestions will be of immense assistance in self help to stop drinking and to make life peaceful. This change should improve the quality of your life.

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Overcome Procrastination Now And Start To Excel

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

A lot of people want help to overcome procrastination. Often it is a serious Many people need to try to overcome procrastination. Often it is a serious issue that can effect every aspect of a person’s day to day life. Not only can it hinder your life, but it can also effect your relationships. Many people find they are affected by other peoples procrastination. Once you learn how to Overcome Procrastination then you can enhance not only your life but the lives of those you care about

Procrastination is a severe issue for those who work as telecommuters. Working from home has its benefits but you are always alone and away from your colleagues. Also, if you work at home, you have the opportunity of doing chores around the house, watching the television, playing games on your PC.

There are lots of well researched techniques to help you eliminate the hassle that is caused by procrastinating. Initially, you must realize that procrastination can be made to actually work for your as well as against you. You need to know when during the day you work to your best ability. For most people, early morning is the the best for working creatively. So if this applies to you, ensure you do the most work that needs creativity in the morning, and do more repetitivework during the afternoon.

Resentment can be a part of procrastination when working from home. This is because work that needs to be done is always present. At all times of the day,the tasks are in the back of your mind. So from time to time, you can resent the tasks you have to do and procrastinate even more. To fix this, you should consider building mini schedules that can permit you to have several breaks throughout the day.

Although working from home as a telecommuter isn’t the perfect job for a procrastinator, doing the hardest work during the best hours, getting multiple breaks, and staying organized can ease the effects and help you to begin to Overcome Procrastination

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Not All Moving Companies Are Bad

Sunday, September 20th, 2009

If you’re tired of reading about moving scams in the news, here’s a moving story with a happy ending

At first, this story sounded like any other moving scam story. The victim made his way to an anti-movign scam web site, and shared his story and asked for help. 9 months after a coast to coast move, which had included a binding estimate in writing that was paid in full, the would be victim, received a letter from the moving company demanding an extra 2,200 for “storage.” The fee was allegedly incurred during the move. The homeowner tried to resolve the dispute, in a conversation with someone in collections. He insisted he had never received an invoice from the movers for the storage fee. And when he quoted a Federal regulation which he claimed prevented the moving company from adding additional charges 9 months after the move, the collections agent became angry, and said she was turning the case over to the legal department.

So far this moving company sounds a bit like scammers. The ingredients include concocted additional charges, 9 months after the move, and now, threats of legal action if the victim doesn’t pay up. But now members of the anti-scam moving site bulletin board come to the rescue One member assured the victim that the movers, Suddath, were reputable people and this could just be an honest mistake. He wanted to know if the homeowner had requested storage, because storage fees are not a part of legal “binding agreements.”

The homeowner had requested storage, however, he said he had agreed to pay a flat 135.00 for the additional service. Then he talked once more with the collections department, and this time they were more reasonable. They examined the paperwork and discovered that the time his belongings were supposedly in storage corresponded to the entire length of the move, and would have left no time for transport.

A negotiator soon joined the bulletin board discussion.
She talked with collections and discovered that the items had been put into storage, and could find no promise of a flat fee in the documents. She promised to get things resolved, though. And she made a memorable statement: “Please understand that all companies can make mistakes – it’s when the mistakes are identified and how they resolve them as to whether they are scamming individuals or not.”

The inability or lack of interest in resolving mistakes is certainly what characterizes scam movers. Once they get control of the victim’s belongings, communication breaks down. They are concerned about 1 thing, getting their full fee as quickly as possible.

One of the participants on the bulletin board suggested the moving company had put the items in storage after promising free storage, and had forgotten to note the agreement on the storage forms. The next day, Pam was back to inform Archie that he had hit the nail right on the head. That’s just what happened..

Apparently Archie and Pam knew each other, as the serious atmosphere dispersed, and they began to joke.
“Archie, she said,” “Your great.” “How many times has a woman told you than?” Archie, obviously pleased with the compliment, responded: “Gotcha, lucky guess on my part. Sounds like a mixup, which can be corrected with a few keystrokes on a computer. You should do like I do, I keep Quinn’s cell phone on speedial, just in case I ever have to go right to the top. I miss ol Quinn, he was a class act. Nothing against Barry, he’s a cool dude too, but Quinn took Suddath to the top, and did it right.”

With the misunderstanding only hours away from resolution, Archie and Pam, the negotiator continued to trade jibes. “Haha, I wish I could get women to tell me that I’m good……I used to date a farm girl, when she broke up with me, she sent me a John Deere letter” To which Pam replied, “I can ALWAYS count on you for a good laugh!!!! I love you Archie. I have got to get to Atlanta soon to catch up with you…..your humor just cracks me.”

The next morning, word came through, the mistake was cleared up. The would be victim had nothing but praise for the anit-scam.com web site community.

This article was sponsored by Packing Service Inc. Packing Service Inc. is a national packing company chain dedicated to protecting consumers from moving scams .

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Building Up Self-Assurance

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009

Few people truly make it in life. The vast majority of individuals are lonely and shy – they don’t make a lot of friends. Young men are not able to get dates easily and girls are unable to make an impression, all because they lackself-confidence. Can you stand a public speaker whose style does not carry conviction? Shy speakers don’t captivate their audiences. They are unable to be compelling. In short, their speeches are not able to have the necessary pep and spirit to be stimulating and wind up falling flat. energy healing

A lack of self-confidence is what keeps most from being confident, successful and finally well-off in their life. However, if you can realize that you do not have the confidence you desire, you can work on building it up and making your desires for success become a reality.

How to we define Confidence
If you can pick out the characteristics of an individual who is brimming with confidence, this will assist you succeed in building your self-confidence. How do you recognize that an individual is self-confident? It’s easy, really. If you are balanced and self-confident, you are assertive, your body language expresses your self-assurance, you keep your head high, you speak with authority but not with arrogance, your attitude is optimistic, you go after your goals with determination – well-prepared to overcome all obstacles because you don’t avoid taking calculated risks whenever required. And when ever you make mistakes, you readily acknowledge them. Your goals are established realistically, keeping in mind a honest appraisal of your assets, your weaknesses and your skills and talents. energy healing

Building Self-Confidence
While trying to build self-assurance, you probably will have a couple of questions to ask yourself. Is it possible to establish confidence? If by nature you are not normally brimming with self-confidence, you may believe you stay that way forever. Not inevitably. You are able to actually take small but reachable steps in order to form great confidence. However, self-confidence and success are interdependent. Usually, you can’t achieve your goals without self-assurance playing a role inbeing part ofyour efforts and without success you can’t have self-confidence. spiritual healer

That being the situation, how do you establish self-assurance? That is a good question. Begin by setting yourself a small enough goal that you can achieve it without too much difficulty. Then attain it and watch your self-confidence develop. Repeat the steps, everytime making the goal a little tougher than before and gradually build your self-confidence step by step.

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Your Prospect Follow Up Call Success…

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009

…depends, most importantly, on your attitude during the prospect follow up call. Techniques and tactics are secondary because if your attitude is wrong, then you have lost your prospect already!

You must remember that you are not a sales person, but you are there to serve the needs of your prospect. There is nothing more, that can turn someone negative towards you, than when they realise they are on a hard sell call.

You should be calm, pleasant, and attentive to your prospects concerns and needs, this is what will relax the prospect into opening up about their present life and their hopes for the future.

So with this in mind, we can move on to the methods and techniques to use during the prospect follow up call.

Keep a notepad handy, you will want to have for and against columns for noting your prospects attitudes that, may or may not be favourable towards your niche.

For the first half of the conversation you should not make reference to your opportunity or product at all. The call will develop through 7 or 8 stages before you reach this point.

You should seek to attain a rapport with your prospect by asking questions that establish;

-A Connection
-Their Background
-Their Problems
-A Solution
-Money Ambitions
-Consequences
-Their Qualifications

The purpose of going through all these stages before your presentation, is to establish your prospects status, and their attitude towards your opportunity. By the time you reach the presentation stage, or even sooner, you will have established if your prospect is going to be suitable, or not.

CONNECTIONS; here you will introduce yourself, and find out if the prospect is still looking to for something, and what they are looking for.

BACKGROUND; here you will establish what your prospect does for a living and how long for.

PROBLEMS; here you will establish whether your prospect enjoys their work, or are dissatisfied, and why.

SOLUTIONS; here you will discover what, if anything, they have done to transform their current situation. How much research, and what may be holding them back.

MONEY AMBITIONS; do they want to make more money, establish how much. Is the amount low, in your zone, or higher?

CONSEQUENCES; has the prospect considered the consequences of doing nothing, and where their life will be heading if nothing changes? You may already have a feel by this stage whether your prospect is a candidate or not.

QUALIFYING STAGE; establish that you can help your prospect by shooting some questions relevant to your opportunity start up. These could be features, costs, commitment needed etc.

TRANSITION STAGE; here you check out your for and against list to see on which side your prospect falls. If they are mostly favourable towards your opportunity then go right ahead to your presentation. If however, the against column is full, you may decide to ask more qualifying questions or to tell your prospect they may not be suited for the opportunity at this time.

PRESENTATION STAGE; by now you will be confident that your prospect is favourable to you, and that they have the means to enter your opportunity. You should also have established whether, during their research, they have already gathered a lot of relevant information. This makes your presentation that much easier, which is shown in your confidence and transferred to your prospect making everyone comfortable.

By the end you will have established yourself as a source of solace and trust to your prospect, because you have shown that you place their interests first. No pressure has been brought to bear, and the sales pitch wasn’t really that, it was more of a self help group meeting!

If you continue to position yourself as a source of help and understanding, as opposed to a sales person, you will see your prospects follow up call conversion rates multiply, believe me.

So my friends, take this message to heart and go help some people!

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