We’ve all been there guys. We start getting a strange vibe from a certain girl and it feels like she is trying to flirt with us. But we want to be absolutely sure before we reciprocate. Otherwise, we could be setting ourselves up for a very embarrassing situation.
But how can we really be sure that this is flirting and not just being nice? What follows is a list of tell tale flirting signs. Woman can be extremely hard to figure out but if you are aware of the signs, the game gets a little bit easier.
She makes eye contact with you – This one seems like a very simple and obvious sign but hold on a second. Just because a woman gives you a fleeting glance doesn’t necessarily mean she is interested in you. Some women are naturally friendly. This means they flirt without really intending to flirt. So you have to be able to differentiate. The key is this: if she makes eye contact with you several times, sometimes maintaining the contact for more than a few seconds, she is probably interested.
She touches you – Along with eye contact, this one is not always as obvious as it seems. I’ve known many women who constantly touch people during conversation and I know for a fact, they were not flirting. So simple touching during conversation isn’t enough. The touches must be meaningful. By this I mean, it’s very important to be aware of where she is touching you. If she constantly touches you on the hand or wrist, she is probably flirting. If she keeps grabbing your arm, she is probably flirting. And if she is touching or grabbing your wrist, it’s a sure fire signshe is flirting.
She twirls her hair – This is a classic and extremely telling flirting sign. The reason it tells so much is that it is almost always subconscious. Some of the more experienced flirters are aware of its power and may do it on purpose but the majority of women have no idea they are doing it.
She draws attention to her lips – If she is constantly applying lip gloss or constantly licking her lips, she is into you. Or if she runs her fingers across her bottom lip while listening to you, you should take that as an invitation to flirt back.
She comes up to you – This is the ultimate sign of flirting. If a woman approaches you and starts up a conversation, she is flirting with you. Even at this point, many guys still question whether or not they are being flirted with. They may say, “She was just asking me about the band” or “She just wanted to know what I was drinking.” And I tell them exactly! That is how women show interest. They won’t just come up to you and tell you they are attracted to you. They simply look to start a conversation about anything, just so they can get you talking.
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